Before a woman becomes a mother, a lot of questions are already
running through her mind. The queries like how will she handle all those kids' trauma,
her figure will not be the same again and losing freedom, etc. She worries about whether she’ll be able to deliver a healthy baby or not, whether
she’ll be able to nurture him well or not, etc. These common questions arise in
a woman’s mind before planning the baby. But, once they delivered the baby after
putting all the efforts put in those pleasant months altogether from healthy meals, being
health conscious and monitoring fetus growth, etc. The bundle of joy makes
everything worth it.
When a baby is born, they know only the mother by their voice,
touch, and smell. A kid doesn’t know whether her mother is officially qualified. They only know she’s my mother and they accept her the moment
unconditionally. They look forward to her.
Once a child is born, everything changes. A mother is more
concerned for her kids than anything else in the world. Her heart, mind, and
soul are involved only in concerning the child.
Now let me ask you a question, Does
a mother need a professional degree to qualify herself as a mother? Isn’t she
blessed with her instincts to know what's happening with her kids? Why are they behaving like that?
There is not any precious gift in the world other than the unconditional love of a mother.
A mother plays many roles in her kid’s life depending on the
situation. A mother is both sugar and spice at the same time. She knows the
best for her kids. A few are like sometimes she’s a teacher, friend, role
model, financial controller, CEO of the house, the best chef, a doctor, a
healer, a decision-maker, a counselor, a reader, and the emotional backbone,
etc. You all agree that yes! The list could go endlessly.
“I feel sorry for those who don't appreciate the efforts put in
by their mother, whereas a few are struggling to find their mother’s, genuine love.
I feel sorry for those who keep on insulting their mothers in
front of their friends when she’s not able to speak English or communicate well, but they forget she
educated then. So, they could learn to communicate well.
I feel sorry for those who take their mother for granted, but
they don’t know God is watching over them.”
Today's kids don't have time to spend with their parents, but
they have time to spend with their friends and on other events. They must understand that their parents are also growing old with us. They’ll not be here with
us all the life. We all are here for a limited period. So, why waste it on
something else which is not important to us? Indeed, we should spend it with our parents whose life is nothing without us. We still have time to say sorry and
thank you to our parents. Just remember their hard work and try to appreciate
it every time you notice it before the time passes.
The primary motive of this blog is to convey a message that no
mother needs a specific qualification to be with her kids. She’s just perfect
the way she is. She just needs to be a little understandable and respected. You’ll
see how much her heart is an ocean of love. “Make yourself ready to dive in
love with your mother every day”.
As you know, Mother’s day 2021 is around the corner. You have
time to plan out the best moment to spend with your mother. So, don’t forget to
share in the comment box, what’re you planning?
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A-ARRIVED
B-Blessings on the way
C- C-SECTION VS NORMAL DELIVERY
D-DEPRESSION IN NEW MOTHERS
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