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Friday, September 4, 2020

How to Embrace Your Emotions to Save Marriage

 



A human being is full of emotions from the day they are born. They have emotions like happiness, anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shyness, and so on. Human emotions are versatile and unpredictable, and they change every moment depending on how each person handles their emotions when they’re looking to gear up with themselves. 
Let us think about a situation, where a person is happy about getting news of a job promotion but at the same point, when he gets to know about his close relative’s demise, he becomes sad. We start memorizing the best time spent with that person.

Everyone has their own set of emotions and a different style of expressing them. Many express their emotions by speaking, whereas a few express them by being silent, and some by way of massive reactions. Even animals have their own set of emotions, although they have their own way of communicating them. Emotions play a crucial role in one’s life. 

Our emotions assist us in many things, such as conveying our message or meaning, providing us with clarity, calming us during difficult times, and making life decisions. Our subconscious mind behaves the same way we would like it to be treated. Therefore, if we give it positive thoughts, it’ll have a positive impact on our health and future thoughts.

To apply this idea, let’s look at the example of a slim girl named Amira. During her college days, she was quite an introvert: she never expressed her feelings, but instead kept them to herself for fear of hurting anyone. How does she feel? What if she’s looking for someone to talk to? She did not think it would be a good idea to express her feelings. She felt that either people would blame her or that she would end up hurting them. She was not confident about what to express, how much she should express, and to whom it should be shared. 

Being a shy girl, Amira never made friends with those whom her shared emotions would be safe. She never spent enough time with her family for them to know her likes and dislikes; she never made herself understood. Instead, she kept herself busy in activities like reading books, painting, journaling, and meditation, etc.. 

Because she always tried to hide her emotions, this caused anger to build up inside her. She used to become furious at the smallest things, like when her parents asked her plan for her marriage. Despite usually being very polite to her parents, she rudely walked away.

One day, she was sitting on the balcony with her parents drinking a cup of coffee. Her parents brought up the discussion of her marriage plans and, surprisingly, this time she was already prepared for it. Yes! After a long discussion with her parents, she made up her mind. But her anger kept bothering her. “How could she manage her marriage if she couldn’t express her feelings?”

Amira thought that maybe discussing things with her partner would help her to get herself out of a place of anger. Perhaps she might find comfort in expressing her feelings. But things were the same even after marriage. Being a new daughter-in-law, her responsibilities increased: her in-laws had expectations for her, and she wasn’t able to manage her anger with her husband; she would get furious every time. She asked herself, why was she unable to share her feelings? What made her so self-conscious? Why did she feel so blank? 

One day, sitting quietly in her room, she wrote down all the questions she had in a diary. What should she do to make it right? She cried for it weighed down her heart. Crying is always the best release for emotion when one’s heart tank is full. When we cry, we make space for new, positive feelings.

Luckily, Amira found a calm and supporting life-partner with whom she was able to express her feelings. He made her feel calm and comfortable. She discussed everything about her anger with her husband. An intelligent man, he asked her to find a state of calm first and then speak out to express whatever was running in her thoughts. He helped her to solve her queries.

In doing so, Amira’s husband gave her a few suggestions:
  • Write down all running thoughts
  • Don’t take everything  personally
  • Learn to adjust and build up interpersonal skills
  • Do something productive 
  • Start expressing yourself  

Amira followed all five pieces of this advice for a continuous 21 days, and guess what? She found herself transformed. Everything takes time to adapt, some more than others. For instance, internalized emotions like anger can take a while, whereas a few emotional releases like crying come naturally. 

Amira’s anger hadn't gone away, but she had learned how to manage it well. This helped her to improve her relationship with her in-laws, her parents, her friends, her husband, and, most importantly, with herself. She started loving herself more. 

In the years that followed, she learned other ways to manage her anger:
  • She started focusing on what made her happy
  • She started respecting everyone’s point of view
  • She started being grateful  
  • She started enjoying her life 
  • Most importantly, she accepted herself

Now, Amira is a more mature and determined person, who takes life’s worries as challenges that she can face gracefully. She thanks God for blessing her with great in-laws, a husband, and both the parents who stood up for her every time. She was no longer overwhelmed by negative emotions; most especially, she had overcome her anger. She was able to manage it now because she wanted to. Like Amira, we can also take control of our emotions.

Emotions have a powerful impact on our minds, health, and system. So, allow your mind and heart to decide which emotions of yours you want to pamper, and which ones to put in the garbage. Let us strengthen ourselves. Most especially, we want to control our emotions in the right manner and not allow anyone to control us.

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Monday, June 15, 2020

Gift ideas for Father's Day 2020


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“Don’t forget to express your love to your Father”



Father’s day is soon approaching and there are so many ways to show our love by varieties of gifts but very few options are available as we know it because of the lockdown. It might be difficult to go outside and to shop for your father. But don’t worry! We’re here with a few ideas on how to make it special even within your budget and personality. They’ll arrive at your doorstep before the day arrives. This year, father’s day will be celebrated on June 21 (Sunday), 2020.



Do you want to gift your dad? looking for the best option available?

What do you think your father likes the most?

Books? Accessories? Technology? watching movies? music? cooking? etc.

He might not tell you this but you’re the one who knows him the best. Ask these questions and figure it out yourself what’s gonna suit him the best for a perfect token of love on this father’s day.


Books in mind


  • Confessions of the World's Best Father

An amazing read for new fathers or soon to be fathers. The book has many vibrant pictures that new fathers can easily relate to. The funny pictures show the relation between the father and the daughter how they spent time with each other and cherished every moment. If You're blessed with a daughter then You’ll enjoy reading this book, calling to all the new fathers, and soon to be to check out this book. Give it a try.


  • Daddy by Tarun S Sinha

Mother is not the one who understands the child but a father equally puts an effort to understand the child's behavior. The book is a combination of many things like it’ll make you laugh and cry both. This book is based on fatherhood who share their tips, advice, suggestions, and advice from pediatrician and child psychologists. The author shares about his upbringing with his father as to how they deal with behavioral issues which shouldn’t have been ignored by any parent. Again a must-read book for new fathers who can prepare themselves in advance on how to deal with their precious child.


  • Dude! You’re gonna be a dad by John Pfeiffer

A man must support his lady not throughout her pregnancy days but till the delivery is attempted. This book throws light on how a man who is soon to be a dad is supposed to become a little more responsible. The book is highly recommendable to all new and soon to be fathers that how can they surprise their wife and do their best to prepare their mind in advance. There are many takeaway key points for new fathers.


These books can be gifted to any dad on this coming special occasion.


Love for Accessories

If your father is the one who has a love for accessories and If he likes watches and sunglasses, then, check out this brand cameriifashion

It’s an Indian based brand and is the most popular among Indian youth.



Brand: Camerii


They’ve many varieties of fashion accessories such as watches and sunglasses with many colors and features available with the latest trends. The men watches are very stylish with a heavy big dial, a day and date watch, and a chronograph watch available at an affordable price, etc.



Brand: Camerii


This brand has got some cool aviators, UV protected sunglasses as well, etc.
You can grab their products before the stock ends.



Love DIY cards



A card is another way to show your pure emotions to your father. You can express your emotions on the card by doing your creativity and making it a special one for him. You can check DIY to get some ideas.


Love for Baking


Does your father have a sweet tooth? then you should try out this recipe. The recipes explain a healthy cookie that is rich in fiber and doesn’t include any kind of refined flour, eggs, oil, etc., the recipe can be made within 30 minutes.


For Serving (10 cookies)




Ingredients:


Oats powder:1/4 cup (roasted and blended)

Rolled Oats: 2tbsp (roasted)

Wheat Flour: 1/4 cup

Salt: a pinch

Baking soda: 1/4 tsp

Jaggery powder: 2tbsp

Honey: 2tbsp

Unsalted butter: 2tbsp

Milk: 2tbsp (if required to make the batter smooth)


How to make it:

Mix all the dry ingredients together and keep aside.

Add Unsalted butter and jaggery powder together and mix it well.

now, add dry ingredients into wet ingredients.

The texture shouldn't be hard nor very soft.


Baking Temperature:

Preheat OTG: 10minutes

Mode: Convection

Time: 15minutes

let it be cool on the grill and now it's ready to eat.



A Movie Date


Being a responsible citizen of our Country India, it becomes our responsibility to not to go outside unnecessarily. We should avoid going out and stay at home as much as possible. Watching a movie at home is never a bad idea but the most appreciated ones, for this, you can plan it to get the feel of a theatre-like already deciding in advance which movie are you going to watch, options can be chosen from Netflix, amazon prime, Hotstar, Alt Balaji, etc. , making pop-corn or any of your favorite snacks, Having chilled beer or any type of beverage with it. Dimming the light and sitting with everyone will make it worth watching.


Wireless Bluetooth Earbuds


These are in trend nowadays. However, they’re comfortable and light-weighted. Check this out which has features available like magnetic charger, inbuilt mic, 100 hours standby, and waterproof. It’s very much comfortable.


You can check out for more personalized gift items too like a coffee mug, name on a pen, a t-shirt, a photo frame, a nameplate, etc.


Let us also know how you are making this father’s day special.


Wednesday, June 10, 2020

80%Mindset 20%Skill






Book: 80%Mindset 20%skills

Publisher: Adhyyan Books

Author: Devanand Gadhvi

Genre: Non Fiction (Self-Help)

Pages: 230

Rating: 5*

Reading Time for the blog: 5 minutes



I was wondering how a motivational author inspires us every moment by sharing his pieces of advice. Recently, I came across an ebook whose title caught my attention. So, Without wasting much time, I downloaded the book in a second and started reading it. Today I am going to tell you about this fantastically written book by the author “ Mr. Devanand Gadhvi.”



About the Author: 


I’m inspired by the life story of the author Devanand Gadhvi Whose's father was a truck driver and his mother played the best role in providing him the best education despite having many struggles in life. Dev Gadhvi is an international keynote speaker, best selling author, and a business coach, etc. He’s India’s first PassionPreneur mentor. He has published two books i.e 80% mindset,20% skills and the other book is 6 Sundays a week.


Every word played a magic role that compelled me to keep reading it. The author has explained. how his parents have helped him to grow, how his experiences in fortune 500 companies helped him to grow skills in life, He has expressed clearly how he faced all the challenges and how he has achieved success and managed all his tasks very well. 


He has highlighted these 3 steps formulas to become unstoppable.


  • REALIZATION
  • TRANSFORMATION
  • SUSTAINABILITY.

I was wondering how his story would help me to get inspired. And yes, the author has shared a few practical questions and exercises and shared a few tips related to business and personal growth which made me think that where I see myself in the coming 5 years. Here, the author tries to explain that If we want a rich and happy life, we need to plan it now and work on it accordingly.


The average mindset is not going to work if we want a rich life but certain massive actions need to be taken. Rich life doesn’t mean that we will have unlimited cash but in terms of good health, family relations, physically strong, mentally fit, and having a good rapport in the society. One of my favorite part of the  book Is the detailed discussion on  the  people whom we’re surrounded with:


Losers: Those who see negative in everything and don’t make an effort at all.

Comforters: Those who put minimum efforts.

Averagers: Those who achieve their small targets.

Unstoppables: Those who keep on moving ahead and take massive action every time. They’re the risk-taker and keep on challenging themselves.

He has asked certain questions on ‘why’. Find out your ‘WHY’? Asking This question can change one’s perception of their life and their goals. If we can answer this, It’ll only help us to have clarity in the mind. 


The book of the title itself describes that mindset is everything. It has the power to record and execute. If 80% of our mind is set then we can plan for anything which can be achieved with 20% of skill. Here, he tells us a story of two friends Moe and Joe, and about their mindset and skills and how they used them in their personal and professional life. How they acquired the skills with the time depending on the requirement based on life situations. 


Again, here the author conveys us a message by comparing the middle-class mentality vs millionaire mentality, average life, and rich life, etc. He explained how middle-class families think that spending money on themselves is the wastage of money whereas a millionaire thinks spending money on themselves helps them to acquire skills. The author himself has invested a lot in himself and that what makes him outstanding in the crowd.


The book is written in a descriptive style. There are many takeaways, key points from the book which can be helpful to anyone in their self-transformation. And how the author has invested his time accordingly in each aspect of life also it is related to social, emotional, physical, family, health, Income and fixing the mind, etc.



To sum up, quickly, the author has shared everything about his personal and professional life. This book has really left a remarkable mark on me and I would highly recommend it to those who love reading self-help books and looking forward to transforming their lives and seeing it from a new aspect of view. 


Of course! His second book 6 Sundays a week is absolutely on my to-read list. You’ll be updated once the review is on the blog.


Thanks for reading!


Don’t forget to share your experiences in the comment box after reading this book. 


Let us know how this book helped you and how does it leave an impact on you? 


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Friday, June 5, 2020

Book Review- MOVE MOUNTAINS- ONE STORY AT A TIME

MOVE MOUNTAINS

ONE STORY AT A  TIME




Book: MOVE MOUNTAINS ONE STORY AT A TIME
Publisher: Gullybaba Publishing House Pvt. Ltd.
Author: Mukesh Kulothia and Deepak Sharma
Genre: Non Fiction (Self-Help)
Pages:136
Rating: 5*
Reading Time for the blog: 3 minutes

Today I would like to share about this book “Move Mountains One Story At  A Time’ written by Mr. Mukesh Kulothia whom I met in one of a toastmaster meet up at Gurgaon. He is serving as a District 41 Director for Toastmasters International. And another author is Mr. Deepak Sharma. Mukesh's speech moved me and he came across as a kind person after knowing about him a little more! This compelled me to go ahead and read the book. 

This is a self-help book. What I like about the concept of the book is that it contains a total of 52 short stories that inspire and motivates you at the best. I liked the quotes which are mentioned at the end of each story. This book is written in a very simple language. So, it can be read easily by anyone that maybe kids, young and oldies. I found this book helpful when I was looking for some kind of inspiration in my life. The book has helped me in many different ways which is difficult to describe in words but once you’ll start reading this, you’ll be able to relate.

Let me share one of my favorite stories from the book i.e. story no. 15 on page no. 37; Potato, Eggs, and Coffee Beans! This story is about a boy who told his mother that his life was miserable. He was unable to handle it properly. So, his mother took him to the kitchen and asked him to boil potatoes, eggs, and coffee beans in three separate pots. She asked him to let them boil for 20 minutes and turned the burner off. So now what the boy noticed was that the potatoes were very soft and the eggs were very hard but the coffee had been dissolved properly in the water and had a rich aroma all around. 

This explains to us that miseries in life will always be knocking at the door but it depends on us how we respond to it. However, we as human beings have the power in our hands to control anything in life-like emotions, challenges, etc.. This story has inspired me and reminded me to be 'Me' when the situation is really difficult.

I strongly feel whosoever is reading this blog, please move ahead with the book. This book can be finished in a single sitting but it is highly recommendable to give your time and thoughts to these stories. One must learn from these stories and must apply it practically as well. This book is really helpful for those who're looking for some kind of inspiration in their life. These stories are going to push you forward.
Believe me! You’ll love these stories.
Thank You!
 
Don’t forget to comment and share your experience. Which is your favorite story from this book?

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